Why True Healing is the Basis of Healthy Relationships

Wednesday, October 13, 2021 , , 0 Comments

It takes two whole people to make a healthy relationship work.

The keyword is healthy, not perfect. 

The number one prerequisite of a healthy relationship is two whole people.

True healing goes beyond getting over your past relationships or forgiving an ex who hurt you. 

Sadly, many people are still battling with unresolved childhood trauma, psychological issues, low self-esteem, and toxic traits, which usually contribute to soul wounds.

These are the major reasons why an unhealthy pattern will keep repeating itself. 

Ignoring the underlying issues and trying to fill the void with different relationships or activities is self-sabotaging.

Without proper healing, an individual can continue to attract broken people. More so, it may be difficult to spot red flags and potential partners who are emotionally and mentally healthy. 

The journey to healing can be a lonely and daunting one, but it's always worth the effort.

If you're ready to start that journey, then you need to embrace a growth mindset and ditch the negative self-talk.

You can't rush the process. Remember, you didn't arrive here in a day.

Bola Adekile

Craves basking in the present moment, keen fan of nature. Unapologetic learner. Reader.