Debunk Those Lies, You are Smarter Than You Think

Tuesday, October 27, 2015 , , 0 Comments

Self esteem

Morphing into different versions is the latest trend in town in order to be accepted by others. It's as easy as changing outfits. We don't want to be labeled as the odd one out, so we dump our core values without thinking twice, like they don't even matter in the first place.

The most important thing is to be good enough for you, that settles it all. It starts with accepting ourselves first as we are before trying to change anything. Everyone won't be your person, you can't be liked by all. Pleasing everyone is heart wrenching and inconvenient.

Our worth as a person is unrelated with outside opinion, attention and approval, it's an inside job. There is no need of going that extra mile, saying yes if it's going to leave us worn out. We will still care, but not like our existence depend entirely on it.

Bola Adekile

Craves basking in the present moment, keen fan of nature. Unapologetic learner. Reader.