It's All The Way or Nothing

Tuesday, November 03, 2015 0 Comments



If you have certain skills, abilities or a deep knowledge of something, don't scorch others but rather be a beacon. These gifts doesn't make you better than anyone else, possessing them is a huge responsibility. You can either use them or allow them to use you.   

It is common to see people as daft when we're trying to help with these gifts and they count it as nothing. The fact that they lack what you have doesn't make them lesser human beings, nor will it make you superior. If you are not needed, then move to the next person. You can't save the whole world anyway. 

Helping others is really messy. If you can't do it with patience and loads of love, it's better to leave them as you met them, sooner or later, help will come along for them. At one point or the other in our lives, we've struggled with the same issues that they are facing, many of us are still struggling with them. 

Imposing our ideas on others is a subtle form of tyranny. People are sensitive, they will resist. 


Bola Adekile

Craves basking in the present moment, keen fan of nature. Unapologetic learner. Reader.

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